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The Indianapolis Farmers' Market vendor "Just Cookies" just won't make cookies for gay IU students. Fun fact: the cookie order was eventually placed with the "Flying Cupcake" bakery on, get this, Massachusetts Ave.

I would have volunteered to make them cookies. In fact, here, here's two cookies. Pass them around, folks:









Quote from the article by the local Fox affilate: IUPUI's spokesperson said the school has no formal complaint against the bakery and added embracing diversity means allowing the business owners the right to their opinion and the right to choose how to serve its customers, as long as those customers are not discriminated against.

I think this is an interesting question. When you are running a food-related business and choose not to serve someone because, "We have our values, and you know, some things ... for instance, if someone wants a cookie with an obscenity, well, we're not going to do that," when does choosing not to serve someone because you disagree with who the person is once they have told you become discrimination, and when does that become a business owner simply turning away a customer? Can it, legally, be treated as discrimination? I mean, it seems to me like the customers are being discriminated against by the act of not being served, because they likely would have been served if they had not identified themselves as queer, or had lied and said they wanted the cookies for some other event. Any lawyers want to clear this up?

I wonder how many queer students Just Cookies unknowingly served because they didn't know they were gay; there's evidence they served at least one queer student previously (unknown to them). I bet they won't get many now.

Oh, and Indiana was one of the states to file an amicus brief against same-sex marriage in the prop 8 appeal in CA.

...I can't believe I still want to move back.
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I made some vegan Genderbread cookies for [livejournal.com profile] badoingdoing's excellent coming-out party yesterday--had a lot of fun and some good discussions with friends old and new. It was really interesting, and refreshing, to be asked what pronoun I preferred to use; it puts you in a different headspace. I eventually went with "she," but I had to think about it/got to think about it. I wish there were a gender-neutral pronoun in English that didn't obscure/dismiss gender altogether ("it"), or didn't sound ridiculous to my ear (any of these solutions).

I feel like using an invented gender-neutral pronoun in a non-explicitly gender-safe space is problematic in that people may either mishear you (deliberately or non-deliberately), or that you will be asked to explain your pronoun. I don't want to have to explain my pronouns, or my gender, to others, every time I talk to them--partially because I don't always understand how to explain it to myself.

Other people--what do you think? Does anyone have thoughts or experiences to share?

Here is the recipie for the cookies--they were not traditional gingerbread, but sugar. The next time I make these, I should remember to add the food coloring with the liquid ingredients so it mixes better into the dough; adding it after the dough is made resulted in a lot of needless kneading. I replaced the butter with soy margarine, and replaced the cream with soy milk. It worked fine.

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