And I always feel awkward opting in, because I don't like to ask people for things they may not want to give me.
I would rather ask people what they wanted me to give them and have them tell me that they might not want to give the thing to me, than accidentally give them something that was actively harmful to them by not asking.
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12/8/10 04:54 (UTC)because I don't like to ask people for things they may not want to give
me.
I would rather ask people what they wanted me to give them and have them tell me that they might not want to give the thing to me, than accidentally give them something that was actively harmful to them by not asking.