I understand. I'm sorry to make you repeat points you'd already put in your original post; I wasn't sure whether "jobs that I thought would let me do this" meant you'd already tried what I'd suggested, or were simply hoping a low-stress job would leave you with the energy to work in the evenings. Thanks for taking the trouble to explain.

For what it's worth, I still think medical insurance is the important thing at the moment. As others have suggested, you can always go part-time later and pick up the creative work then. Hope that's of some help, after being so initially irritating.