I understand why you're asking. The text may not convey the proper affectionately teasing tone of that statement.

I tend to approach filters differently, in that I put people on the filters I'm ok with them reading, and I figure people can scroll past what they don't want to read. And I always feel awkward opting in, because I don't like to ask people for things they may not want to give me.

But again, I understand why you feel the need to ask.